Keep :  Boundaries Lesson # 2 

Students write down the questions that are in red and the class discussion for those questions

What is a boundary?  Something that indicates a border of limit:


Why are boundaries important for teenagers? ___Keeps you from doing the wrong thing_____

speeding, texting while driving         Watch Police Car Chase 2min video

Watch video on Teenage Driving 20 min video

How do child/parent roles change when the teenage years approach?

When children become teenagers parents become more like a manager. Helping teens make the right choices by establishing boundaries.

Children aren't born with self-discipline and boundaries play an important role in managing teenagers.

What about being alone with your girlfriend/boyfriend at his/her house? Should there be boundaries there? Yes

Give examples of rules or boundaries in your life and how have they protected you?  How do rules protect you?  They cause the teenager to take ownership of their decisions. It gives you an excuse to say no.

Watch Boundaries While Dating 8min video

Curfew   It's been said that nothing good happens to a teenager after midnight.

Drinking   Makes you act stupid plus  it's illegal for both parents and teenagers.

Movies/ videos  / violent video games : garbage in / garbage out

Social Media:  parents monitor to keep teens safe

Watch Help teens Manage Screen Time video

Discuss the garbage in / garbage out concept     Is it possible that what you subject your mind to effects your everyday decisions?

What about media influence: TV, magazines, movies, videos, games, music, internet, pornography,

How does the media portray sex outside of marriage?________________

Circle of boundary


Who are people in your life that help you stay in your boundaries? What do these people do exactly to help you stay in your boundaries?

curfews, positive friends, concerned parents, teachers, counselors, healthy decisions, goals, values, etc.



What are things that help you stay with your boundaries?____________


What are influences that take you out of your boundaries.___________



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Lesson Objectives

OBJECTIVES: Students will be able to:

1. define the meaning of boundary

2. explain how boundaries are important.

3. describe the significance os staying within those boundaries

4. chart on a circle boundary pressures from with out and with in

5. define the terms: rule

6. Explain the significance of  God working in those boundaries

Remember Recognizing, Recalling
Understand : Interpreting, exemplifying, classifying, summarizing, inferring, comparing, explaining
Apply : Executing, implementing
Analyze : Differentiating, organizing, attributing
Evaluate : checking, critiquing
Create: generating, planning, producing

Knowledge: Recall of data.

Comprehension: Understand the meaning, translation, interpolation, and interpretation of instructions and problems. State a problem in one's own words.

Use a concept in a new situation or unprompted use of an abstraction. Applies what was learned in the classroom into novel situations in the workplace.

Separates material or concepts into component parts so that its organizational structure may be understood. Distinguishes between facts and inferences. 

Builds a structure or pattern from diverse elements. Put parts together to form a whole, with emphasis on creating a new meaning or structure.

Make judgments about the value of ideas or materials.